Am I wrong or am i right?

Ok so my boyfriend of over a year is all upset with me. So we have a religious bankquet that last all day. And most women wear uncomfortable shoes to style and profile well I refuse to do that bcuz I don't like it. We'll he tld me that for the next banquet if I don't do that for him and take my shoes off for a while then I dn't love him and i'm being saditty. I just bought him a phone today and he was all lovey and happy and not even twenty minutes go by and he gets mad bcuz I wont so he said he doesn't care about me and hangs up in my face. Now am I wrong?