Friday, August 12, 2011
My "best friend" is always putting me down/using me?
me and my "best" friend used to be really close in community college. We both transferred to the same UC as well, but now I feel like all she ever does is compete with me. We're even in the same major. She's always ping comments on how I'm stupid, when in reality I have a 3.7 and she has a 3.4. She's always trying to correct me in front of everyone, and makes me feel like I'm not good enough. Just like when we got our midterms back, I got a A plus and she failed it. She started making excuses that I prolly got the easier TA to grade mine or something. And then she's like You didn't even study! All, I ever do is study! She's always competing with me in every cl. Before, we used to hang out and talk on the weekends, now she only contacts me when she needs something for cl. During lecture, she just sits there, goes on Facebook, chats up boys or what not. I'm sitting there taking lecture notes. Last midterms she didn't take any notes and then kept bothering her to send mine to me. And then she complains that my notes are too descriptive and I shouldn't "transcribe" what the teacher says. Finals are coming up and I'm fed up, I don't want to send her my notes because I feel like she's just using me for that purpose alone. She's always ping hurtful comments towards me as well. I want her out of my life, because I used to be a much happier person before she came into my life. I don't know how to say no to her. Confronting doesn't help. She doesn't do ANY work, and then expects me to spoon feed her all the while. If she was nice I don't care I'd give her my notes, I'm not the competitive type. But she's like biting the finger that's feeding her. WHAT do I do? She's really aggressive and controlling.
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